It's not what we do tomorrow that determines our happiness. It's not what we said yesterday that should dictate our thoughts. It is how we live in the now that matters. Sure..you can think of what to wear tomorrow, or when you're going to see a significant other. But you can't sit around and regret what you said to your good friend yesterday over a dumb fight about which Kardashian will get the next face lift.. Things that can not be controlled once they are said and done need to be left alone.. That's why we have got to live in the here and now...Where we stand.
Trying to change things, will only complicate the situation more. That one d-bag that broke your heart and you tried so hard to get him to see just how truly wonderful you are...let him go. Stop chasing him. We are all chasing something. So if you're chasing him and he's not chasing you back...he's clearly running after the next. Don't torture yourself and make yourself angry over someone who's concerned about someone else.. Or that one friend who borrowed your shirt, gave it back with a stain or tear after they said they'd be careful with it. Yeah, you're going to get heated and want to smack something but don't. What good will that do? You'll feel a bit better, sure but now instead of just buying a new shirt..you have to make up to your friend for how you reacted too. Some situations..you have to sit back and ask yourself.."If I were to die tomorrow, is this really worth being mad about?". And since you have to ask that...no. no it's not worth being mad about. Step outside, take a breather, relax and continue on as if all is good. Just buy a new shirt. Drop the loser. Carry on. Don't lower your standards because the world is full of to many idiots.
With all of this being said...this is my first blog and even though it may seem scattered, bare with me. I'll get the hang of it. Stay tuned(:
Cline. OUT
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